How to use the Law of Attraction: The Secret to Relationships

October 13, 2007 | By rogerloh In Law of Attraction | Comments(0)

This morning, I reviewed ‘The Secret to Relationships’ in the book, ‘The Secret’ which revealed that the law of attraction in the most powerful law in the Universe.

The author, Rhonda Byrne, mentioned that we can turn a difficult relationship around by taking a piece of paper and write all the things that you appreciate that person for the next thirty days. Instead of complaining about that person, appreciate their sense of humor and appreciate how supportive they are.

 

 Rhonda’s suggestion reminded me of a book I read some
time ago that had personally helped me in my relationships with others,
titled ‘Whale Done’ by Kenneth Blanchard who is well known as a
bestselling author for his ‘One minute manager’ around the world.

‘Whale done’ is a play of words with ‘well done’. Instead of accusing
and demoralizing people, Ken Blanchard shows how to make accentuating
the positive and redirecting the negative the best tools to increase
productivity. When you tell someone, ‘Well Done!" for doing a good job,
you show appreciation and gratitude. It’s similar to what Zig Ziglar
mentioned in his success theories of becoming a a good finder - that is,
finding good instead of finding faults in others.